A Community Group Chat For Scottish Sex Workers

Everything you need to know.

What The Group Is:

This is a community group chat for current, former and on-again-off-again Sex Workers (of all varieties) who are either based in Scotland, visiting Scotland for a tour or looking to stay connected with the Scottish Sex Worker community.

Every person in this group will have gone through a verification process to prove they are a Sex Worker (or have been). This will include providing links to active adverts or websites, verifying work phone numbers, getting vouched for by someone in the group already or being met in person by an admin and verified in person.

This group can’t provide financial, physical or mental health support in any official capacity, but members of the group will likely be able to help point you to Sex Worker-friendly services. If you need help with something, please contact an appropriate organisation and not an individual group chat member.

We welcome people of all backgrounds, sexual orientations, genders, ethnicities and sex work experience (e.g., webcam, strip club, FSSW/escort, sugar babies, etc). You don’t need to be an active Sex Worker to join this group. It’s important that even when people stop actively working, they retain a sense of connection and community, and in this group chat, we encourage this.

Some members of this group chat might be connected to organisations that directly support Sex Workers or are actively campaigning for Sex Worker rights (e.g, NUM, Scotland For Decrim). If you have questions about any organisations represented in the chat, please reach out to the representative of the organisation.

Anything posted in this group chat STAYS IN THIS GROUP CHAT. You are not allowed to share anything from this chat outside of this chat. But also keep yourself safe by not sharing anything in this chat that could put you at risk if it were shared outside of this chat. No legal names of anyone, no photos of children, no addresses and any other sensitive information. Keep yourself and your community safe.

This group is intended for ALL Sex Workers, as such, we will not tolerate:

  • Transphobia

  • Racism

  • Homophobia

  • Whorearchy attitudes (being one type of sex worker doesn’t make you any better or worse than any other kind of sex worker)

  • Classism

  • Shaming people’s methods of work

  • Any kind of bullying

People should respect individual group chat members’ contact preferences (which should be included in every member’s intro message) and not contact anyone who has asked not to be contacted.

Group chat members must not ask individuals for direct financial aid via private messages. Sharing links to a “JustGiving” or “GoFundMe” type page is allowed in the main chat, but please do so sparingly. If you need financial support, asking for advice or suggestions is highly encouraged.

Politics can be a difficult topic for many. It’s obviously a very important topic, but please be conscious of how you discuss things in a group chat. Where possible, consider setting up separate chats to discuss topics with people who are interested in talking about them. Don’t assume everyone in the group has the same opinions as you.

How much money individuals make can be a tense topic, better discussed in a separate group chat if you want to get into specifics or in a vague way if you want to keep it in the chat (e.g. “I made more money today than yesterday, and I’m happy my hard work paid off” or “money is tight for me, so I’m struggling a little”).

If you have an issue with someone in the group, please reach out to an Admin, but keep in mind that the Admins are just people who were kind enough to volunteer their time and energy. They can’t be responsible for resolving serious issues.

Try to give everyone in the chat the benefit of the doubt. Tone and context easily get lost in group chats. Try to give everyone a chance to explain something before escalating.

Admins have final say and the right to remove anyone at any time.

RULES

When you are added to the group, please introduce yourself. Here’s an example intro post for you to edit.

Hi/hello, my name is (name here) [feel free to include your work and real name or one or the other], my pronouns are (she/he/they/it/xe/etc). I’m a (FSSW/Stripper/Porn performer/etc) based in (Glasgow/Edinburgh/etc).

This is my (personal/work) phone number, please (do/don’t) contact me directly on this number. [Feel free to include anything else you think people should know about you]

Intro Post:

For anyone curious, this information is being hosted on this website because Google and similar cloud storage hosting sites continue to de-platform Sex Workers. This site is hosted on a (currently) sex worker-friendly server and is owned by the Sex Worker who started the group chat.

Contact

contact@asking-alice.com
07542175349 (TEXT ONLY)

Alice Mayflower's Last Sexual Health Check-up: 21st May 2026